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Friday, March 28, 2014

Sunday, March 23, 2014

Perempuan penipu terbesar !!!

ohhh .. hai.. hai ... jangan la marah ... :) untuk cik we cik we sekalian ... betul x?? Jom baca...


1.Perempuan selalu tipu cakap dia ok  sedangkan dia tengah bengang , nak marah , nak penyepak suma adalah ...

a: " sayang , are u ok ? "
b: "yeah .. i'm ok . i'm fine" .. tudiaa.. nampak tak ... ada tanduk keluar? :P

2. Perempuan selalu tipu cakap dia tak kisah kekasih dia berkawan dengan siapa2 pon , atleast bagitahu dia , tapi cik adam tau tak ... actually ... dia berharap sangat kekasih hati dia ni faham hati dia , JANGAN CURANG !!!!! bukan bila dah bagi signal terus belasah jer... ke cik adam nak kena penyepak?? ( ok.. gurau jer)

a: " ktorang takde pape lah sayang , call cakap hal bisnes jer, salah ker?  "
b: " xcakap salah pon ... xkisah nak kawan dgn siapa , atleast let me know " ( dalam hati dok kata cakap x contact .. aleh2 siap bergayut telefon bagai .. bukan contact hari2 konon ... PENIPU!!!)

3.Perempuan selalu tipu tentang perasaan sebenar dia . Haaa cik adam sekalian , korang rasa kekasih korang tu sayang korang sangat ?? Korang rasa diorang menangis tu sebab sayang korang sampai meroyan kerr?? Cuba belah dada cari jawapan ... (Sayangla.. xsayang buat apa nak bazir air mata)

"Release your emotions. Go somewhere empty and quiet, and just scream your feelings out. Have a good cry. Rant. Just don't take your feelings out on other people or animals!"

4. Perempuan selalu tipu bila dia kata takde duit . Hey ..hey guys... that's apart of test !!! Bukannya dia tu materealistik pon .. nak tengok uolss macam mana .. (Tapi bukan semua lah.. MEMANG WUJUD SI PISAU CUKUR !! opss)

5. Perempuan selalu tipu bila dia kata dia bergurau , sebenarnya itulah HINT yang besar diorang cuba sampaikan pada kekasih diorang tu ... "She make a joke over a reality"


Ohhh .. nak maghrib daa... chio..chio..  Assalamualaikum w.b.t 

Friday, March 21, 2014

I Reka Resepi Mudah 1 -spagheti

Hai ... i'm on my leave today .. so untuk mengisi masa lapang dan perut Lisa  ^_^ ... taarraaa #spagheti




Bahan -bahan : (Untuk 2 orang makan)

  • Isi ayam yang didadu ( sukatan ikut suka nak banyak mana :P)
  • Bawang putih dicincang (3 ulas)
  • Bawang Holland ( yang sudah di blend bersama bawang putih )- Lisa suka blend banyak2 buat stok , kalau rasa malas , boleh dadukan saja bawang Holland ni :)
  • Sos PREGO  Mushroom (2 sudu besar)
  • Serbuk perasa pasti sedap..nyum nyum ( kalau tak suka pakai MSG product boleh ganti dgn garam )
  • Air ( 3 sudu besar) -untuk kuah
  • Minyak ( 1 sudu)
  • Garam
  • Spaghetti ( agak2 untuk dua orang makan ;) )
  • Cheesedale (Hiasan / Bagi berlemak)

Mai masak meh ... 

  1. Spagetti . Lisa guna rice cooker masak spaghetti uolls ,, haha , nak cepat punya pasal .. ok  masukkan air dalam periuk rice cooker , agak2 cukup untuk rebus spaghetti tu . Kemudian masukkan minyak 1 sudu  , garam secukup rasa , dan spagetti ( PETUA : macam mana nak taw dah masak , amek sedikit mee spagetti tu nak campak kat dinding , kalo melekat tu dah masak la...haha  , atau senang kata gunakanlah deria rasa yang dikurniakan pada kita ni )
  2. Kuah . Tumis bawang putih yang telah dicincang  , kemudian masukkan bawang Holland  yg telah di blend 3 sudu besar  sehingga naik bau , masukkan ayam yang telah didadu . Masukkan air tiga sudu ( senang nak bagi ayam empuk) .Agak2 ayam dah masak tu , masukkan 2sudu sos prego .Bila dah mula mendidih , masukkan serbuk perasa.Siap.
Hidang.

Spagetti yang telah masak  dibilas dengan air sejuk  dan ditoskan. Hidang dalam pinggan . Letak sekeping cheesedale (takmau letak pon takpe :)) ) Tuangkan kuah diatasnya ^_^ .. nyum nyum nyum .. sedap !! boleh makan daaa .... 

OK tata ... 







Friday, January 17, 2014

18 januari 1962

pada tika ini , waktu ini dilahirkan seorang bayi oleh Tuan Sharifah Zainab Mohamad , seorang bayi yang diberi nama Syed Mohd Basir bin Syed Baharin . Siapakah anak ini ? Bapaku ...

Abah , di kesempatan ini , ely tintakan ucapan hari lahir buat abah yang tersayang , semoga abah sentiasa dimurahkan rezeki , menjadi abah yang penyayang selama-lamanya , i love u abah.. love u alots. The coolest guys i've ever known .

Happy Birthday !!!

 

TOP 50 Internet Slang .. you must know ^_^

  • 1. IMO         In My Opinion
    2. SMEXI    Smart and Sexy
    3. :3             Cute/goofy face
    4. KOS        Kill On Sight
    5. GOMB    Get Off My Back
    6. KML       Killing Myself Laughing
    7. KOTL     Kiss On The Lips
    8. DELISH Delicious
    9. SIS          Sister
    10. SEO      Search Engine Optimization
    11. SIAP     Sorry If Already Posted
    12. GIF       Graphics Interchange Format - Picture Format
    13. FWIW   For What It's Worth
    14. HMU    Hit Me Up
    15. TIE       Take It Easy
    16. CSA     Cheap Shot Artist
    17. DC       Don't Care
    18. IDK         I Don't Know
    19. UG           Ugly
    20. ASBO      Anti Social Behaviour Order
    21. SFW        Safe For Work
    22. :D            Happy
    23. LOLING The act of laughing out loud
    24. GOMEN Sorry
    25. DTH        Down To Hang
    26. HTTP      Hyper-Text Transfer Protocol
    27. VHF        Very High Frequency
    28. LY2         Love You Too
    29. SMH       Shaking My Head
    30. WBY       What (A)bout You?
    31. AWESOME Amazing, wonderful, cool
    32. =3             Cute/goofy face
    33. IG             Ignorant
    34. FHO         Friends Hanging Out
    35. WCW      World Championship Wrestling
    36. TFI           Thanks For the Information
    37. WYL        Whatever You Like
    38. LML         Love My Life
    39. SIWOTI    Someone Is Wrong On The Internet
    40. FF             Final Fantasy
    41. YO           Your
    •              Hi
    •              Years Old
    42. (N)            Thumbs down (MSN)
    43. OEM        Original Equipment Manufacurer
    44. ILD          Ich Liebe Dich (I Love You)
    45. IIRC         If I Remember Correctly
    46. ISO           In Search Of
    47. YAYO      Cocaine
    48. CHU         You
    49. IYD          In Your Dreams
    50. MC           Master of Ceremonies
     




Friday, January 10, 2014

Let's Get some epidural ...


What is an epidural?

During an epidural, painkilling drugs are passed into the small of your back via a fine tube. It is a regional anaesthetic, so the drug is injected around the nerves that carry signals from the part of your body that feels pain in labour. It will numb your tummy and provide you with very effective pain relief.

In the UK, epidurals and spinals must be given by an anaesthetist. About 30 per cent of women have an epidural or spinal during labour or after the birth (CQC 2010).
How is an epidural given?

Your anaesthetist will give you an injection in your lower back and then guide a hollow needle between the small bones in your spine.

The needle goes into the space between the layers of tissue in your spinal column (the epidural space). A fine tube (catheter) is then passed through the needle and the needle is removed. The tube is taped up your back and over your shoulder.

Try to keep very still while your anaesthetist sets up the epidural. While on your side or sitting on the edge of the bed, you'll be asked to lean forward. This opens up the spaces between the bones of your spine.

Concentrate on your breathing to help you to keep still. Breathe in deeply through your nose, and sigh out slowly through your mouth. Hold hands with your birth partner, if you have one, and keep eye contact with him.

Epidural painkillers may be given as:

Injection with top-ups
Painkillers are injected into the tube to numb the lower part of your tummy, and your contractions should no longer be painful. As the epidural begins to wear off, you can have top-ups which last between one hour and two hours.

Continuous infusion
An epidural catheter is set up, with the other end of the tube attached to a pump. This continuously feeds the pain-relieving epidural solution into your back. You can also have stronger top-up doses of local anaesthetic, if you need them. Sometimes the pump is under your control. This is called patient-controlled epidural analgesia (PCEA), but is only available in some hospitals.

Combined spinal epidural (CSE)
This injection contains a low dose of pain-relieving drugs (a mini-spinal) and works more quickly than an epidural alone (NCCWCH 2007: 128, Simmons et al 2007). At the same time, the anaesthetist will insert a catheter.

When the mini-spinal injection starts to wear off, your anaesthetist will pass the epidural solution through the tube to give you ongoing pain relief. She will then check that your pain relief is working by using a cold spray or an ice cube on your tummy and legs, to see if you can feel it. If you can feel the coldness of the spray, your epidural may need to be adjusted or reinserted.
How does it work?

The anaesthetic deadens the nerves that are carrying pain signals from your uterus (womb) and cervix to your brain.

Most hospitals use low-dose epidurals that contain a mixture of painkilling drugs, usually a local anaesthetic, bupivacaine or levobupivacaine, and an opioid (fentanyl).

A low-dose epidural may allow you to have some sensation in your legs and feet. However, only a mobile epidural, which requires extra staff to monitor you, allows you to move about.
When should I have it?

You can have an epidural at any point in your labour (NCCWCH 2007: 115). Most women request it when their contractions are getting strong, often when their cervix has dilated to about 5cm (2in) or 6cm (2.4in).

You may be offered an epidural if your labour has to be speeded up with a Syntocinon drip. This is a synthetic version of the hormone oxytocin, which makes your cervix dilate and your contractions intensify. You may need extra pain relief, because this can make your contractions difficult to cope with (NCCWCH 2007: 238).

Once your epidural is in place, it can stay in until after your baby is born and your placenta is delivered. It can also provide pain relief after the birth if you need stitches (NCCWCH 2007: 121).
How might an epidural affect my baby?

If your blood pressure drops (Anim-Somuah et al 2011, Jones et al 2012, OAA 2008), it may affect the flow of oxygen to your baby. Before starting your epidural a small tube (intravenous cannula) will be inserted into your hand or arm. This is so fluids and drugs can be fed through if your blood pressure falls later on (NCCWCH 2007: 110, 115).

Epidural solutions contain the opioid fentanyl, or a similar drug, which can cross the placenta. In larger doses (more than 100 micrograms), these drugs may affect your baby's breathing, or make him drowsy (NCCWCH 2007: 113).
What are the advantages of having an epidural?
It's the most effective form of pain relief during labour (Anim-Somuah et al 2011, Jones et al 2012, NCCWCH 2007: 113).
Top-ups can usually be given by an experienced midwife (NCCWCH 2007: 109) once the epidural is in place, meaning no waiting for an anaesthetist.
You may still be aware of your contractions, and have a clear mind, but you'll feel no pain.
If you have high blood pressure, it can help to lower it.
It can be topped up with stronger local anaesthetic if you need an unplanned caesarean. Though having an epidural does not increase your chances of needing a caesarean (OAA 2012).
What are the disadvantages of having an epidural?
For about one-in-eight women it doesn't work adequately (OAA 2008) and only numbs parts of their tummy. In this case, extra pain relief will be needed. If you're not pain-free within half an hour of the epidural starting, ask the anaesthetist to come back to adjust it or try again (NCCWCH 2007: 117).
Though it works fairly quickly, it takes about 20 minutes to insert and set up and another 20 minutes to work once the anaesthetic has been injected (OAA 2012). This is longer than most other types of pain relief.
It may make you feel shivery (RCOA 2009a).
It may cause itching (NCCWCH 2007: 116, 128, OAA 2008, 2012), particularly if you have a CSE (Simmons et al 2007), but it's not usually severe.
You may develop a fever (Jones et al 2012, NCCWCH 2007: 117, OAA 2012).
You will need to stay in bed, as your legs are likely to feel weak or heavy. Even if you are able to shuffle around on the bed, you won't be able to walk around. Not many hospitals offer true mobile epidurals.

Keep varying the position you are sitting or lying in. This prevents you from developing a pressure sore on the numbed area of your body.
It can affect your ability to wee, so you may need a catheter after the birth. This usually won't need to be left in, and will be used to drain your full bladder. However if you have a difficult vaginal birth or a caesarean, you may need the catheter to be left in for longer (Jones et al 2012, MIDIRS 2008: 8, NCCWCH 2007: 197, OAA 2012).
You will need more monitoring. Your baby's heartbeat will be monitored continuously for at least 30 minutes at first, and then after each top-up (NCCWCH 2007: 122). Your blood pressure will be taken every five minutes when the epidural is started, for about 30 minutes, and after each top-up. This is because the epidural can cause your blood pressure to fall (NCCWCH 2007: 117).
You're more likely to need your labour speeded up with a Syntocinon drip (Anim-Somuah et al 2011, NCCWCH 2007: 110-12, 117). However, hospital staff should give you the chance to have a longer, slower labour, before using drugs to speed it up (NCCWCH 2007: 150, 152-3).
The second stage of labour, the pushing stage, may last longer if you have an epidural (Anim-Somuah et al 2011, NCCWCH 2007: 113). You may not feel an urge to push. If this is the case, and there's no sign of your baby's head yet, waiting an hour, or until you feel the urge to push, should be encouraged (NCCWCH 2007: 121).
There's more chance of your baby needing to be born with the aid of forceps or ventouse (Anim-Somuah et al 2011, Jones et al 2012, NCCWCH 2007: 113, OAA 2012). This may be because epidurals can make it difficult for your baby to move into the best position for birth.

Your baby is more likely to end up in a posterior position by the time you're ready to give birth. This can happen even if he wasn't in that position when your labour started (Lieberman et al 2005).
There is a small risk of you having a severe headache (RCOA 2008). This can happen if the epidural needle punctures the bag of fluid that surrounds the spinal cord, causing a leak of fluid.

There is about a one in 100 chance of this happening (OAA 2008, 2012). It's usually treated by taking a small amount of blood from your arm, and injecting it into your back to seal the hole made by the needle (epidural blood patch). This is done after your baby is born.
There's a very small risk of nerve damage, leaving you with a numb patch on your leg or foot, or a weak leg (RCOA 2009b). But this rarely happens. The risk is about one in 1,000 for temporary nerve damage and one in 13,000 for permanent damage (OAA 2008, 2012).



For more information see the Obstetric Anaesthetist Association's epidural information card.
What else should I know?
Epidurals are only available in obstetrician-led maternity units (NCCWCH 2007: 113). So you can't have one at birth centres, midwife-led units, or if you have a home birth.
Maternity units equipped to give epidurals may not offer a 24-hour service. Much depends on what your local unit offers, and when your labour starts.
If you feel pain or pins and needles in your legs, tell your anaesthetist immediately, but try to stay still. This may be a sign of temporary nerve damage and that the needle needs repositioning (RCOA 2009b). Permanent damage is thankfully rare.
Not everyone can have an epidural (OAA 2012). The anaesthetist will ask you questions about your health, and if you have any medical conditions, before performing an epidural. This may affect whether or not you can have one.





http://www.babycentre.co.uk/a542571/epidural#ixzz2q3y27jHS

Wednesday, January 8, 2014

Egg and mayonnaise

Rasa kulit kusam? Kering ? Tak bermaya ?

Want to rejuvenate your skin ? Why dont we try this homemade masker ... entertain your skin in less than hour ★_★


Egg whites
Mayonnaise


Beat egg whites in a bowl ,add 2 tablespoons of mayonnaise ...till both of it well mixed .
 then apply to your face
After 20 to 30 minutes ...
Wash your face with cold water

 ♥♥ its cold yet refreshing ♥♥

Wednesday, December 11, 2013

11.12.13

Norma kini semuanya hebat merperkatakan tentang tarikh yang sinonim ... ( ape benda tah ) ... tarikh yang cantik la senan cakap .. 

Ada apa pada 11 12 13 ni ... ? Tkde ape pon .. sekadar suatu nombor :P 
jangan nak taksub bebenor .. 
     Sorry ... saje nak update entry ngarut .. enjoy ur holiday orengs selangor ^_^

Tuesday, December 10, 2013

Cervical Cancer .. what have you missed ???

Mostly we as women was covered in black ... why?? Because  we always fear to face the truth ...  why do we have to manipulate the facts? I m here to day to share ... to give an awareness about cervical cancer , before its too late  ... :)

MISCONCEPTION #1: Cervical cancer is easily detected. 
Especially in its early stages, this disease may have no signs or symptoms at all. And the incidence of cervical cancer starts rising steeply at age 30. 

MISCONCEPTION #2: Cervical cancer develops quickly.
The cancer on the lower part of the uterus is caused by Human Papillomavirus virus (HPV). Sexual intercourse is the primary route of transmission of genital HPV infection.

If left untreated, it may take more than five years for the infection to develop into pre-cancerous lesions. This usually requires an average of 20 years before becoming a full-blown cervical cancer.

“In that span of time, there’s no way of knowing if you’re infected or not unless you get yourself checked. That’s why most patients are aged 40 and above,” Ganzon said.

“So it’s always better if you get protected from the virus,” she added.

MISCONCEPTION #3: HPV vaccines are best administered when you’re older.
You don’t need to wait until you’re 25 before you get yourself vaccinated. In fact, the perfect age for a girl to get HPV vaccine is when she hits puberty at the age of 10 to 12.

“The recommendation is we start at 10 years old because when you’re very young, the anti-bodies you produce are twice higher than adult women,” Ganzon explains.

“If you’re 15, you produce 100,000 units of antibodies against HPV virus. A 10-year old actually produces 200 to 300,000 units,” she clarified.

MISCONCEPTION #4: You won’t be infected if you’re not sexually active.
HPV is a highly transmissible virus. This means that it can still be passed from one person to another through direct skin-to-skin contact even without penetration.

Ganzon also recalled having a patient, who said she never engaged in sexual activity before she acquired cervical cancer.

“It’s a very rare type of cervical cancer. She was in her 20s when she came to me. She underwent surgery that set her free from the disease. But she can no longer bear a child,” she recounted.

If you can't avoid sex, get yourself vaccinated against cervical cancer.

MISCONCEPTION #5: One dose of HPV vaccine is enough to protect you.
Ganzon explained that a dose of HPV vaccine only works for young girls, who are at their peak of producing anti-bodies.

Doctors recommend that adult women, whether sexually active or not, get three doses of the HPV vaccine. Women should get each dose at an appropriate time for them to produce enough number of anti-bodies.

“The first two doses should be 28 days apart. The third dose should be taken six months after the second one,” Ganzon said.

MISCONCEPTION #6: If you miss your vaccination schedule, you need to start over.
It’s okay to get the second or third dose at least two to three months from the time you should have received the first or second shots, Ganzon clarified.

“The last dose is just to boost whatever level of antibodies you have produced with the initial two doses of HPV vaccine,” she explained.

“The vaccine may still produce anti-bodies. But if they failed to get a follow up for at least a year or two, they might need to get more doses. They must consult with their doctors,” she noted.

MISCONCEPTION #7: The HPV vaccine is useless if you already have the virus.
HPV has different types; one could be stronger than the other. This makes the vaccine still effective in giving you protection against HPV types other than the particular virus you contracted.

But Ganzon strictly noted that HPV-infected women may need stronger type of vaccines or other antibiotics to get rid of the virus.

“That is why it is recommended for sexually active females to undergo tests first like pap smear for women aged 40 and older before getting HPV vaccines,” she said.

MISCONCEPTION #8: There is no cure for cervical cancer.
Surgery, chemotherapy, and radiation are just some of your options to get rid of cervical cancer. With the help of the right people who can give your proper attention and with the support of your family and friends, you can win the battle against this disease.

Friday, August 9, 2013

raya DATANG lagi ... loner day

Terkenang Di Ketika Itu
Ku Dimanja Dan Disayang Selalu
Apa Saja Kemahuan Diri
Akan Cuba Dipenuhi

Walau Hidup Dalam Kesukaran
Kau Kan Cuba Untuk Membahagiakan
Demi Anak-Anak Yang Tersayang
Kau Berdua Kan Berkorban

Tetapi Baru Kusedari
Tidak Mungkin Kan Terbalas Budi
Pengorbanan Mu Tiada Ternilai
Hanya Tuhan Kan Membalasnya

Salam Aidilfitri
Ayah Bonda Yang Dicintai
Maafkanlah Anakmu Ini
Kerna Belum Cukup Berbakti

Pabila Menjelang Lebaran
Baju Baru Kan Disediakan
Walau Mungkin Kami Tak Mengerti
Keperitan Saat Itu

Namun Wajahmu Terus Barcahaya
Oh Sucinya Kasih Sayang Itu
Di Bibir Mu Kan Menguntum Senyum
Andai Anakmu Bahagia

Salam Aidilfitri
Ayah Bonda Yang Dicintai
Maafkanlah Anakmu Ini
Kerna Belum Cukup Berbakti
Di Aidilfitri,Di Aidilfitri



salam aidilfitri !!! hai guys .. suddenly rasa rindu nak update blog ... and this is my first Eid without my family and friends ... 
    BERBAKTI PADA NEGARA kata mereka ... hahaha .... yeahh walaupun pahit untuk ditelan , tapi inilah rayaku pada tahun ini .. di HOSPITAL !!! :o


mesti korang seronok kan beraya .. jumpa sanak saudara , kawan2 .. hangout sana sini , and me pulak ... terperap in this tiny room barely able to breath ( ok .. ini propa :p )  ... fengfeeling oncall di pagi raya ... saya dan dr oncall today ( should i mention her name? ) haha , nampaknya we all beraya berdua jeela , but ini pon satu memori :) thank you sbb saya dapat makan hidangan raya pada pagi syawal ( actually ak bawak satu botol besar twister and chocolate cadbury jer for my meals) teruk.. betul ;)   well well well ... mana reti nak masak rendang suma ni ... tak sempat lagipon ( ini bukan alasan taw!!!) 

ok .. hari ni 3 syawal masih bekerja beb !! lol :)) ~ esok last day kerja ... kerja petang jerrr haaa minggu ini , then 10.30...  FLY to KUANTAN !!! ( ok.. naik bus )

hey you all , memang la sedih tak dapat raya with family , tapi emotional support from family buatkan aq takde la rasa sebak sangat , petang raya ber " we chat" habaq hang :p hihi ,  patient and their kin pon ramai yang wish ;) ... rasa kembang hidung time tu tak kempis2 dah ... hahah (sorry ... mengarut je ni)

ok layan lagu sedih jap 

Sayang
Suratku yang ini
Bukanlah untuk memujuk engkau kepangkuanku
Cuma sekadar melahirkan kedinginanku
Terhadap falsafah cintamu
Yang hanya begitu agung dibibir
Tak sampai menusuk ke sudut hati

Sungguh sayang
Janjimu bak lautan yang dalam
Tapi tiada bertepi
Dan aku hairan
Mengapa aku sahaja yang derita akhirnya
Hingga kesaat ini
Kata kata manismu
Masih bermain ditelingaku

Hati kasih sayang rindu
Terhimpun seluruhnya bagimu sayang
Ingatlah janjiku ini
Panas hujan angin ribut
Tak mungkin memisahkan kau dariku
Inilah sumpah setiaku

Sayang
Diriku ini mengapalah
Tanpa ujudnya cintamu
Amat lemas dan resah
Tapi kau usah bimbang
Bukan simpati yang ku pinta darimu
Diam senimu membawa satu cerita
Bahasanya hanya aku sahaja yang mengerti
Aku catitkan diatas suratku yang ini
Kenangan lalu kita dalam restu

Hati kasih sayang rindu
Terhimpun seluruhnya bagimu sayang
Ingatlah janjiku ini
Panas hujan angin ribut
Tak mungkin memisahkan kau dariku
Inilah sumpah setiaku
 
hahaha ... lagu ni takde kena mengena dengan raya yerr.. suka hatilaa nak tulis :p... selamat hari raya aisilfitri maaf zahir dan batin.
 
" happy Eid'  fitri "



Tuesday, July 2, 2013

HELLP syndrome

 
URL of this page: http://www.nlm.nih.gov/medlineplus/ency/article/000890.htm

HELLP syndrome is a group of symptoms that occur in pregnant women who have:

Causes

The cause of HELLP syndrome has not been found.
HELLP syndrome occurs in about 1 to 2 out of 1,000 pregnancies, and in 10-20% of pregnant women with severe preeclampsia or eclampsia.
Most often HELLP develops before the pregnancy is 37 weeks along. Sometimes it develops in the week after the baby is born.
Many women have high blood pressure and are diagnosed with preeclampsia before they develop HELLP syndrome. In some cases, HELLP symptoms are the first warning of preeclampsia and the condition can be misdiagnosed as:

Symptoms

  • Fatigue or feeling unwell
  • Fluid retention and excess weight gain
  • Headache
  • Nausea and vomiting that continues to get worse
  • Pain in the upper right part of the abdomen
  • Blurry vision
  • Nosebleed or other bleeding that won't stop easily (rare)
  • Seizures or convulsions (rare)

Exams and Tests

During a physical examination, the doctor may discover:
Liver function tests (liver enzymes) may be high. Platelet counts may be low. A CT scan may show bleeding into the liver.
Tests of the baby's health will be done. Tests include fetal non-stress test, ultrasound, among others.

Treatment

The main treatment is to deliver the baby as soon as possible, even if the baby is premature. Problems with the liver and other complications of HELLP syndrome can quickly get worse and be harmful to both the mother and child.
Your doctor may induce labor by giving you drugs to start labor, or may perform a C-section.
You may also receive:
  • A blood transfusion if bleeding problems become severe
  • Corticosteroid medications to help the baby's lungs develop faster
  • Medications to treat high blood pressure

Outlook (Prognosis)

When the condition is not treated early, up to 1 of 4 women develop serious complications. Without treatment, a small number of women die.
The death rate among babies born to mothers with HELLP syndrome depends on birth weight and the development of the baby's organs, especially the lungs. Many babies are born prematurely (born before 37 weeks of pregnancy).
HELLP syndrome may return in up to 1 out of 4 future pregnancies.

Possible Complications

There can be complications before and after the baby is delivered, including:
  • Disseminated intravascular coagulation (DIC) -- a clotting disorder that leads to excess bleeding (hemorrhage)
  • Fluid in the lungs (pulmonary edema)
  • Kidney failure
  • Liver hemorrhage and failure
  • Separation of the placenta from the uterine wall (placental abruption)
After the baby is born and HELLP syndrome has time to improve, most of these complications will go away.

When to Contact a Medical Professional

If symptoms of HELLP syndrome occur during pregnancy:
  • See your obstetrician right away
  • Call the local emergency number (such as 911)
  • Get to the hospital emergency room or labor and delivery unit
There is no known way to prevent HELLP syndrome. This is why it is important for all pregnant women to start prenatal care early and continue it through the pregnancy. This allows the health care provider to find and treat conditions such as HELLP syndrome early.

References

Sibai BM. Hypertension. In: Gabbe SG, Niebyl JR, Simpson JL, eds. Obstetrics - Normal and Problem Pregnancies. 6th ed. Philadelphia, PA: Elsevier Saunders; 2012:chap 35.
Wakim-Fleming J. Liver disease in pregnancy. In: Carey WD, ed. Cleveland Clinic: Current Clinical Medicine 2010. 2nd ed. Philadelphia, PA: Elsevier Saunders; 2010:section 6.

Update Date: 11/8/2012

Updated by: Susan Storck, MD, FACOG, Chief, Eastside Department of Obstetrics and Gynecology, Group Health Cooperative of Puget Sound, Bellevue, Washington; Clinical Teaching Faculty, Department of Obstetrics and Gynecology, University of Washington School of Medicine. Also reviewed by A.D.A.M. Health Solutions, Ebix, Inc., Editorial Team: David Zieve, MD, MHA, David R. Eltz, Stephanie Slon, and Nissi Wang.

Saturday, June 29, 2013

The Sacred Symbols of Illuminati

 
kadangkala anak muda kini terlalu ghairah hendak berfesyen dan mengikuti era glabalisasi sedangkan kita tidak sedar bahawasanya minda kita dijajah malah diperkotak-katikkan dengan sewenang-wenangnya ... mari kita lihat sebahagian lambang yang dikatakan suci oleh pengikut2 illuminati ini dan cuba kalian perhatikan perkara yang terdapat disekeliling anda. 



shamash

-Symbol of Liberty or Slavery?

statue of liberty pic

Pyramids



Israeli Supreme Court, Jerusalem


The Louve in France, 666 pieces of glass -*This statement has been contested.


3 More images from Israel's Supreme Court Building:



Note the Masonic Obelisk


The All Seeing Eye

Washington DC:






Washington DC
What are they hiding here?:




Pentagon




 

Pengenalan Gerakan Freemason

 

FREEMASONRY secara umum diterjemahkan sebagai pertubuhan persaudaraan dan dalam kamus dwibahasa ia memberi erti semangat persaudaraan sesama ahli pertubuhan.
Jika dilihat pada zahir pengertian itu, tiada apa yang tidak kena padanya.
Tetapi sedar atau tidak, ia suatu pertubuhan yang sangat bahaya kepada umat Islam kerana agendanya untuk melenyapkan ketaatan beragama, sekali gus menimbulkan kecelaruan di kalangan masyarakat dunia.
Buku Gerakan Freemasonry – Musuh Dalam Menghancurkan Islam membongkar pergerakan organisasi Yahudi antarabangsa itu yang bekerja untuk menghancurkan kesejahteraan manusia serta merosakkan kehidupan politik, ekonomi dan sosial.
Gerakan itu dipelopori orang Yahudi yang ingin mengambil tanah Palestin dan membina Haikal Sulaiman di bawah runtuhan Masjidil Aqsa, seterusnya melebarkan kuasa ke Syria, Iraq, Jordan, Mesir dan Madinah.
Ia ditubuh serta dirancang oleh Yahudi untuk memusuhi semua agama secara umum dan Katolik khususnya, namun kemudian mereka mengalih perhatian kepada agama Islam sebagai musuh utama.
Buku ini membincangkan secara terperinci agenda dan dakyah yang cuba dimajukan Freemasonry serta sekutunya yang berantaian di seluruh dunia dalam usaha memberikan kesedaran kepada umat Islam.
Antara misi Freemasonry seperti dilaporkan ialah menyebarkan ideologi ilhadiyah iaitu suatu fahaman tidak mempercayai kewujudan tuhan dan tidak menganuti sebarang agama.
Buktinya sebagaimana kata seorang Freemasonry, Proudon: “Freemasonry adalah suatu penyangkalan terhadap kepentingan agama. Apabila ada seseorang anggota Freemasonry yang berkata-kata mengenai kewujudan tuhan, maka yang dimaksudkan adalah alam dan kekuatan material atau mereka menganggap tuhan dan manusia sebagai suatu benda.”
Menurut penulis muda ini, kedua-duanya berkelulusan dari Universiti al-Azhar, gerakan terbabit juga menubuhkan pelbagai pertubuhan bersifat kemanusiaan dan kebajikan seperti pertubuhan Bahaiyah, Kesaksian Yehova dan pertubuhan yoga.
Pertubuhan Bahaiyah misalnya, timbul di Iran pada 1844, diasaskan seorang Yahudi yang menyamar sebagai orang Islam menggunakan nama Mirza Muhammad Ali Syirazi yang meninggal dunia pada 1853.
Ia dikatakan timbul di kalangan Syiah Imamiyah di sebuah kawasan bernama Syirazi di wilayah Iran.
Mirza Ali dikatakan mendakwa dirinya ‘albab’ yang bermaksud pintu.
Beliau mendakwa dirinya menjadi pintu bagi kaum Syiah atau seluruh umat Islam yang akan mentadbir mereka bersama imam yang ditunggu-tunggu kedatangannya pada akhir zaman.
Perkataan albab diambil daripada sabda Nabi yang bermaksud: “Aku kota ilmu dan Ali adalah pintunya.”
Menurut fahaman Syiah, Saidina Ali adalah pintu yang dimaksudkan itu, tetapi Mirza Ali mendakwa dirinya seperti dimaksudkan hadis terbabit dan menamakan ajarannya sebagai Babiyah atau Bahaiyah.
Fasa awal penubuhannya, pergerakan ini mendapat sambutan menggalakkan kerana pada zahirnya cenderung kepada amalan Islam tulen, tetapi kemudian ia jelas menyeleweng daripada kehendak Islam.
Mirza Ali merumuskan agama Islam, Yahudi dan Kristian adalah agama yang datang dari Tuhan dengan mengajak semua penganut agama terbabit membubarkan agama mereka dan membentuk agama yang satu dipanggil dinullah atau agama antarabangsa.
Sekiranya dikaji fahaman itu lebih mendalam, kesannya boleh mengakibatkan manusia meninggalkan semua agama mereka seterusnya membawa mereka kepada ilhadiyah sebagaimana matlamat dikehendaki Freemasonry.
Mereka yang mengikuti ideologi Bahaiyah menganut fahaman wahdatul wujud iaitu penyatuan antara makhluk dan tuhan.
Fahaman ini sudah tentu ternyata sesat dan syirik kepada Allah yang Maha Esa.
Pergerakan Illumanity (cahaya), ditubuhkan Adam Weishaupt pada 1776. Beliau seorang anggota Freemasonry yang murtad daripada Kristian serta meninggal dunia pada 1830.
Illumanity dinisbahkan kepada satu daripada kumpulan Yahudi. Mereka menamakan Illumanity sempena nama iblis, selaku pemerintah tunggal alam ini dengan pusat pentadbirannya di Segitiga Bermuda, tempat tinggal Dajjal.
Lambang pertubuhan terbabit dikatakan terdapat pada mata wang Amerika Syarikat, menunjukkan negara itu dikuasai bangsa Yahudi. Pereka mata wang itu seorang anggota Freemasonry daripada pergerakan Illumanity, Pat Robertson.
Antara matlamatnya ialah menghapuskan sistem warisan harta pusaka, semangat cintakan tanah air dan semua agama sedia ada di dunia supaya manusia dapat dipaksa menganuti ideologi bersifat antarabangsa.
 
Kalau kita melihat senibina tempat-tempat menarik di Malaysia ini, sebenarnya ada sesuatu yang terselindung. Kepada yang tidak meminati ataupun percaya kepada teori Konspirasi Freemason, maka abaikanlah gambar-gambar di bawah ini tanpa perlu membuang masa anda yang berharga itu.
Kolej Universiti Sains dan Teknologi Malaysia (KUSTEM), Terengganu..


Pada ketika ini, bangunan ini telah dikaburkan jika dilihat melalui Google Maps. Mungkin kerana sudah terkantoi.
Bukti: http://wikimapia.org/1620361/Kustem-Cross
Putrajaya

Vatican City & Putrajaya (perhatikan simbol mata)
Lagi gambar..

Di Alamanda, Putrajaya.


Presint 5, Putrajaya.


Mengapakah Obelisk (Tiang) dibina sebagai mercu tanda? Apakah mercu tanda senibina Islam? Adakah tiang?

Jika kita masih buta dan sentiasa menidakkan tentang semua ini, segala jenis cerita sudah dikeluarkan. Tinggal kita nak tonton sahaja. Tontonlah The Arrival dengan hati dan minda yang sedikit menerima.
Sama-sama kita mencari kebenaran di muka bumi Allah ini. InsyaAllah.
credit to : http://www.ohtidak.com/oh-senibina-freemason-di-malaysia/




Lagi cerita B/D freemason :


Top 10 Scandalous Freemason Secrets

Anonymous
The Freemasons are one of the most secretive and controversial religious groups in the world. Masons have existed for centuries – and if we are to believe their claims, they’ve existed covertly for even longer. 

Whatever their history, speculation has always been an enjoyable pastime – and this is especially true in the case of the Masons’ more scandalous secrets. Having passed down traditions and secrets from one generation of initiates to the next, they make it difficult to know what’s outdated and what’s still practiced. Consider these ten masonic activities as provisional facts – we don’t know for sure, but it’s always an interesting exercise to imagine what might be going on behind our backs.


10
They will not testify truthfully against each other
Gavel

Freemasons are commanded not to testify truthfully when another Mason is on trial. They admit that it may be perjury, but to them, it is a far greater sin to not protect one of their own.


9
They have a secret handshake
Pope Blair Mason Handshake1

Though some members deny it to the public, the Freemasons have at least one secret masonic handshake. Supposedly, there are even phrases a Freemason can utter when facing grave danger – causing other members to rush to their aid. The founder of Mormonism, Joseph Smith, is said to have uttered this phrase in the last moments before his death.


8
They have several secret passwords
Masonic French

This is one of the best-known facts about the Masons, but the general perception is that they have just one password. In fact, there are several passwords for various occasions and reasons. As the one person with the final syllable for the ultimate secret word was murdered, they substituted “mor-bon-zi” for this word, and only very few people know the actual secret word. This secret word is used only for ceremonies: “tu-bal-cain” is the more common secret password, on the tip of every Freemason tongue.


7
Their rituals involve a noose
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The initiation rituals- though described by Masons as beautiful ceremonies – include a noose. It’s hard to tell whether this is meant as a threat, a call to maintain silence, or simply as the symbol of an umbilical cord (as they claim), but in any case, it’s unusual enough to warrant a mention. 


6
They’re obsessed with the sun
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Freemasons believe that the east symbolizes rebirth. They sing the sun in its flight – marvelling at its passage through the sky. Masonic lodges tend to be built in the east and in the west, as an attempt to control solar power for their own purposes.




5
Masons exclude atheists
Russell-2

It’s impossible to become a Freemason if you’re an atheist. The first requirement is that potential members must believe in a higher power of some sort. They claim not to care what higher power that is, but you must define it for yourself. You can lie about it, but religion seems to be a point of honor among them. On the other hand, traditionally excluded groups – such as gay men – are included in Masonry, so long as they behave in the same moral manner as other groups. The temple still excludes women, but some groups are currently challenging that fact.


4
They work to control politics and finance in various countries
Handshake

The official corruption of Masonry is well-documented, but often covered up. Half a million Masons in England are disproportionately involved in banking, politics, and government. Even hospitals and universities are often controlled by the Masons.


3
Their symbol is on the dollar bill
Dollar Ase

If you’ve ever looked closely at the US dollar bill, you’ve probably seen the All-Seeing Eye above the pyramid. This symbol is a Freemason symbol, and the Latin underneath is a Freemason motto, meaning “new world order”. Many say that the decision to include this masonic symbol was not influenced by Freemasons – Benjamin Franklin being the only Mason on the design committee – but the coincidence remains fascinating all the same.


2
Anders Breivik was a Mason
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Breivik – responsible for the 2011 mass murder in Norway – was a member of the Lodge of St. Olaf in Oslo. He was promptly excluded – but his degree of involvement within the organization is open for debate. 


1
Masons played a key role in space exploration
Buzz Aldrin 01

Some say that Masons have an agenda to take over the world – but some Masons seem to have their sights set on the moon. Astronauts in the Apollo program – including Buzz Aldrin – were self-professed Masons. Their rite flags have been to the moon and back, and Aldrin seems to have claimed the moon for his Masonic lodge in Texas.


Some of these strange and scandalous secrets of the Freemasons are obviously urban legends, and should be taken with a grain of salt; but others seem to contain a degree of truth. One thing’s for certain – Masonry is by no means an outdated cult. It still has many active members who seem to be working for some purpose – even if we can’t all agree on what that is.



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Tuesday, June 25, 2013

10 ciri ciri calon isteri yang baik

. Taat beragama
Agama adalah salah satu pegangan hidup untuk kita manusia. Taat kepada agama juga menunjukan kalau si gadis akan taat terhadap kamu. Bukan bererti kamu bisa semena-mena terhadap dia dan menyuruh si gadis untuk menuruti apapun yang kamu mau, tapi taat beragama menunjukan bahwa si gadis juga mempunyai prinsip hidup yang baik dan yang dia tekuni.


2. Lemah-lembut

Cuba perhatikan cara gadis berbicara kepada teman-temannya. Apakah dia selalu suka bernada keras, teriak-teriak, atau malah sopan dan selalu lembut dalam berkata-kata? Ciri-ciri inilah yang mencerminkan di mana cara si gadis akan berbicara kepada kamu dan keluargamu nantinya.



3. Perhatian

“Adakah si gadis boleh mengingati  ulang tahun orang tuaku?” . Itu adalah pertanda bagus. Dia benar-benar perhatian akan hal-hal kecil seperti itu. Padahal, kalian belum menikah. Sehabis kamu pulang kerja, makanan pun sudah tersedia. Saat kamu sedang sakit, dia memasakan bubur untuk kamu. Hal-hal kecil seperti itulah yang akan membantu dan memperkuat hubungan kamu. Bukankah si jejaka juga memang suka diberi perhatian lebih dari si gadis? ( manja lettew :P )



4. Penyabar

Kamu telah berjanji untuk keluar makan bersama si gadis tapi si gadis tidak marah sama sekali saat kamu datang dan dia sudah menunggu 25 minit kelaparan. Kenapa sabar itu ciri-ciri yang baik? Cuba pikirkan kalau anda sedang dalam situasi apa saja yang berbau negatif; kesabaran itu akan membantu suasana itu tidak menjadi lebih buruk. Cuba bayangkan kamu sedang dating dengan si gadis yang tidak sabar. Sedikit-sedikit dia marah karena kamu tidak tepat waktu, berbuat sedikit kesalahan. Saat dating yang seharusnya gembira  malahan menjadi pengalaman buruk.



5. Sederhana

Perhatikan apakah si gadis kamu suka berlebihan di depan teman-temannya. Apakah dia suka mempamerkan handbag  yang baru dia beli hari itu juga? Orang yang suka pamer dan tidak sederhana menunjukan kalau si gadis  itu tidak percaya diri; ada kekurangan yang dia punya dan ingin menutupinya dengan mempamerkan sesuatu yang lebih dari dia. Ini sifat yang tidak bagus untuk para jejaka.



6. Jaga kecantikan

Tidak bererti gadis itu harus tampil cantik, tapi menjaga kecantikan itu juga bererti itu gadis tahu bagaimana caranya menjaga dan merawat dirinya sendiri. Jikalah anda sedang dating dengan dia, perhatikanlah “make-up” yang dia pakai. Apakah terlalu berlebihan sehingga menarik perhatian orang-orang lain di sekitar anda? Apakah dia memakai pakaian yang keterlaluan ? Jaga kecantikan itu berarti menjaga penampilan secukupnya dan sewajarnya di saat dan tempat yang benar.



7. Dewasa dan bijaksana

Si jejaka suka dengan si gadis  yang bijaksana dan bersikap dewasa. Di saat kesusahan, Si jejaka akan memerlukan bantuan dari seorang gadis yang dewasa dan bijaksana dalam mengambil keputusan.



8. Hemat
Si jejaka mana yang inginkan si gadis yang   materialistik ? Nanti kalau kamu sudah berkeluarga dengan si gadis  tersebut, dia akan menghabiskan wang ringgit untuk belanja baju-baju yang tidak perlu. Cuba perhatikan dari cara dia menghabiskan wangnya sekarang. Apakah dia termasuk orang yang hemat, boros, atau hura-hura?



9. Keibuan
si gadis  kalau senang bermain dengan anak kecil, boleh menggendong bayi, menunggu mereka tidur, dan sebagainya. Inilah tanda-tanda dari si gadis  yang bisa kamu bayangkan saat mereka menjadi isteri kamu. Dia akan menjadi seorang ibu yang pandai di dalam rumah tangga.



10. Tabah menderita dan mahu bekerja keras

Inilah salah satu ciri-ciri dari si gadis  yang agak susah dicari. Mengapa? si gadis  sudah terbiasa dengan tradisi di mana si jejaka  yang mencari rezeki. Di masa kesusahan, si gadis   biasanya tidak terbiasa untuk bekerja keras untuk keluarga. Jikalau kamu sudah menemukan si gadis  yang tabah menderita dan mahu bekerja keras, hargailah dia.

Ciri-ciri Suami Yang Baik Menurut Islam

buat bakal suamiku ,

Sayang ... saya berdoa sayang dalam kalangan ini ... :)



1. Berkemampuan
sebagaimana hadis Nabi Riwayat Ahmad Bukhari dan Muslim dari Abu Hurairah yang bermaksud:
"Wahai permuda-pemuda; barang siapa diantara kamu bernikah, maka hendaklah ia bernikah, yang demikian itu amat menundukkan pandangan dan amat memelihara kehormatan, tetapi barang siapa yang tidak mampu, maka hendaklah berpuasa kerana puasa itu menahan nafsu." Mampu yang dimaksudkan, berupaya menyediakan tempat tinggal, saraan hidup yang kebiasaan, serta pakaian untuk menutup aurat. Seperti memberi makan dengan apa yang dia(suami) sendiri makan, memberi pakaian dengan apa yang dia sendiri pakai. Bukan bermaksud memberi pakaian lelaki kepadaisterinya, tetapi taraf kualiti sesuatu itu, yang diperuntukkan untuk dirinya, itulah yang diperuntukkan untuk isterinya juga. Maknanya lelaki yang bertanggung jawab. Perkara-perkara ini wajib dilaksanakan suami dan kegagalan menyempurnakannya boleh mendatangkan kesan buruk dan mudah berlaku perceraian.

2. Tidak Dayus
Sanggup menjadi pembela isterinya. Boleh dijadikan sebagai ganti ayah bonda. Sanggup melindungi wanita daripada segala bahaya dan kecelakaan yang menimpa kerana apabila seorang wanita rela dinikahi, bererti ia rela melepaskan dirinya daripada ayah bonda yang selama ini menjadi tempat pergantungan hidup. Kini berpindah kepada lelaki yang bakal menjadi suaminya.

3. Pandai menjaga darjat diri dan menepati janji
Apabila berkata dikota dan diamalkan. Selain daripada itu suami yang baik akan sentiasa mengajak isteri ke arah kebaikan, menjauhkan yang mungkar dan mendahului perbuatan itu.

4. Berkebolehan didalam urusan rumahtangga.
Kebolehan memasak, menjahit juga membasuh akan membantu kerana lelaki yang biasa membuat kerja begini, tidak akan membebankan isterinya membuat kerja rumah sekiranya isteri tiada kemampuan. Bukan dari jenis lelaki yang tidak bertimbang rasa, yang sentiasa memerintahkan isterinya itu dan ini tanpa mengira isterinya sakit atau kepenatan.(Bukan juga jalan kepada isteri itu untuk mengsambil lewakan layanannya kepada suami itu.)

5. Mempunyai penuh kepercayaan kepada perempuan dan tidak mudah bersangka buruk.
Biasanya apabila suami bertugas mencari nafkah maka isteri akan menjaga segala amanah harta dan anak di rumah. Sekiranya suami tidak mempunyai kepercayaan kepada isteri, ini bererti suami akan sentiasa menyangka buruk.

6. Rajin, berpemikiran luas dan tidak memakan harta perempuan.

Lelaki begini adalah ciri-ciri lelaki yang tidak pemalas, inginkan kemajuan serta tidak mengharapkan titik peluh isteri. Allah sangat tidak menyukai manusia yang hanya bertawakal dan menyerah diri tanpa usaha sedangkan kejayaan dicapai melalui usaha. (Sebenarnya secara peribadinya saya tidak berapa setuju dengan pendapat ini, kerana saya pernah berjumpa dengan kisah ini:[Khadijah ra. membuka isi hati kepada suaminya dengan ucapan: "Wahai Al-Amiin, bergembiralah! Semua harta kekayaan ini baik yang bergerak maupun yang tidak bergerak, yang terdiri dari bangunan-bangunan, rumah-rumah, barang-barang dagangan, hamba-hamba sahaya adalah menjadi milikmu. Engkau bebas membelanjakannya ke jalan mana yang engkau ridhoi !"
Dan sebagaimana Firman Allah SWT yang bermaksud: "Dan Dia (Allah) mendapatimu sebagai seorang yang kekurangan, lalu Dia memberikan kekayaan". (Adh-Dhuhaa: 8)] Dan seperti yang kita ketahui juga Khadhijah ra. telah menghabiskan hartanya demi membantu suaminya(Rasulullah s.a.w) dalam menegakkan Islam ini. Mungkinlah pendapat ‘memakan harta perempuan’ disini adalah sepertinya seorang suami yang tidak melakukan apa-apa dengan bersenang-senangan semata-mata. Dan menghabiskan harta isterinya dalam jalan sia-sia dan syahwat pula.)


7. Mudah memaafkan.
Sifat ini adalah sebahagian daripada sifat terpuji Rasullah ketika menegakkan agama Islam. Oleh itu suami bertanggungjawab sepenuhnya kepada isteri dan anak.

8. Datang daripada keturunan orang yang baik-baik lagi rajin beribadah.
Mempunyai akhlak dan budi bahasa mulia serta sangat menghormati orang tua, berpegangan agama lagi rajin beribadah dan tidak berpenyakit keturunan seperti gila atau penyakit merbahaya yang boleh membawa kepada kesengsaraan hidup.
Inilah serba sedikit pendapat-pendapat yang sempat saya kumpulkan. Tetapi apa yang lebih utama dari segala hujah itu tadi ialah Agamanya. Pilihlah yang beragama dan teguh dengan pegangan Islam ini. Tidak mengapa jika calon suami itu terkurang sedikit dari segi keduniaannya, tetapi lebih dari segi agamanya. Namun dalam mencari cirri-ciri suami yang baik itu, mari kita lihat juga ciri-ciri isteri yang baik itu bagai mana pula. Kerana tidak adil mengharapkan Allah menjodohkan kita dengan seorang lelaki yang baik akhlaknya sedangkan diri kita sendiri sangat memandang mudah pula pada yang demikian. Kerana Allah akan menjodohkan kamu sesuai dengan dirimu sendiri itu bagaimana.
surah An-Nur ayat 3, “Lelaki yang berzina tidak dinikahi melainkan dengan perempuan yang berzina atau perempuan musyrik dan perempuan yang berzina itu tidak dinikahi melainkan dengan lelaki yang berzina atau lelaki musyrik. Demikian itu terlarang kepada orang yang beriman.”
 
 
ikhlas ,
miss hano
25/6/2013 21:48